Day Of

If we are meeting in private, please place my envelope in plain sight (i.e. table, counter, or in my hands) upon meeting before excusing yourself to the restroom to freshen up. If we are meeting in public, please include the envelope in a book or gift bag and offer it to me upon meeting.

Tips make my heart sing :)

You are welcome to bring a bottle of your favorite wine or bubbly to our date. 
Please arrive freshly showered or shower at the beginning of our date. I appreciate small measures like brushing your teeth, using mouthwash, wearing deodorant, and washing your hands before seeing me.

If you are feeling unwell as our date approaches, please reschedule with me. I will extend the same courtesy to you.

Please be respectful. If at any point I begin to feel uncomfortable, I will leave.


Please allow for an uninterrupted 8 hours of sleep. You are free to wake me up after 10 am and I expect to be in bed (resting!) by 2 am.


While deposits are nonrefundable, cancellations made with 24 hours' notice can have the deposit applied to a future date. With fewer than 24 hours’ notice, you are responsible for a 50% cancellation fee. With fewer than four hours’ notice, you are responsible for the full rate of your booking. Your remaining balance must be settled within 24 hours, and an increased deposit will be required to secure a future date.

In the rare event that I cancel, your deposit will be returned in full.